February 15th: Choices

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Wouldn’t it be incredible if we could choose everything we had in life?
What if even those unwanted circumstances we were dealt with were given a different meaning?  What if our personal tragedies became sources of power and strength rather than weakness, hurt and victimization?  I’m choosing to see them that way.

February 14th: Reacting to Adversity

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I am thankful that God has blessed me with a beautiful life that, although not completely free of hurt and adversity, is both wonderful and beautiful.  I’ve never been one to victimize myself, even when faced with unpleasant circumstances, but I know that I can always re-evaluate and improve upon myself…  Today I started an amazing three day forum through which to learn how to live a more engaged and meaningful life. I’ll admit to being a bit confused today but I have been receptive to learning. ❤

February 13th: Golf Umbrellas and Hot Messes

So, I woke up Thursday morning assuming that it was going to be freezing out because everyone was claiming that it was going to get colder over night.  I wore boots and a sweater but realized after I headed out the door that it was still warm but there were some serious clouds coming in…

By the time I got to school, the rain was falling sideways and with a vengeance outside and I had the wonderful task of doing car pool duty (as I do everyday) at my school…  After about half an hour of helping kids out of their cars in the pouring rain with a small umbrella, a kind mother got down and gave me her huge golf umbrella to use for my remainder of my time there.  Make a long story short, despite her kindness, by the time I was finished I was soaked to the bone and kinda looked like a crazy person.  Evidence below:

I came into work with my hair straight but I walked around with it curly like this, LOL.  And in the kind words of a friend… “It may be a hot mess, but at least it looks hot.”  Bonus! 🙂

wet hair day

February 12: How to be Happy!

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Yup! Pretty much my philosophy on life. Couldn’t be happier with what I got! 🙂

February 11th: Confidence?

beauty in what you are

 

Have you ever just wanted to be that “hot girl or guy” who exudes awesomeness for no particular reason other than just “being”?   I think that in order to achieve this, you’ve gotta have some SERIOUS self confidence and not give a flying fig about what anyone else thinks…. and I’m not talking about “pretending” you don’t care what anyone else thinks, I mean you honestly and truly are cool what who you are, what you are and what you’re all about despite the opinions of others but NEVER at the expense of others.  Thats pretty damn sexy 😉 I wanna be that girl SO BAD!  Working on it day by day…

February 9th: Flowers abloom!

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As I let Max out to the back yard this morning, a bit of purple caught my eye through all the green of the palms… I did a double take and there it was!  The orchids I grafted to the palm trees in my back yard experimentally last winter have begun to re-bloom!!

I’m so proud and amazed!  Check out the blooms and the buds that will soon blossom!

February 8th: Living on a Whim

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Me… enjoying

 

Today, I’ve had some awesome outdoor time.  It started with a lovely impromptu breakfast at a cafe overlooking the water in Deerfield Beach.  I have to admit that walking the beach afterwards in my jeans made me very jealous of the sunbathers.  All I wanted to do was go home, get changed and head back to the water.  Unfortunately I had a 2pm  follow-up appointment with my esthetician and thought I wouldn’t have time to fit it into my day.

I thought about it for a minute and then said to myself…  what are you thinking?!  What if its overcast tomorrow?  What if I miss my opportunity and can’t go for another few weeks?  Are you really going to miss out on a gorgeous day like this after spending a whole week in a window-less office?!

So, I called to reschedule my appointment, put on my bathing suite, drove to the beach and sat my happy self down on a towel for an hour and a half.  Simple as that.  Perfection…..

February 7th: Attitude of Gratitude

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Today I am grateful for having an attitude of gratitude.  (You must be thinking: Cristy, are you saying you are grateful for knowing how to be grateful? My answer is: YES!) Every morning when I get in my car, I say my prayers before I turn on the radio.  I have a lot to be grateful for and reminding myself of this puts everything in perspective at the start of my day.
I’m grateful for the health of my family, our closeness, for my job, my financial stability and for friends who love me.  I am grateful for all the twists and turns my life has taken and for all the things that God has taken out of my path for my own good.  I’m also grateful for my resilience and innate happiness.
But having an attitude of gratitude is a little more than just being grateful for what you’ve got… In my opinion it’s also about seeing the best in people and appreciating what they put forth, even if it’s less than what you’d want.  How many times have you wished a family member, a partner, a friend or even a co-worker could give you something more than what they’ve presented?  Maybe you wish they were better listeners, more generous, more consistent with their word, less argumentative, a better provider, happier, more cooperative.  But what if what they’re presenting to you is all they’ve got?
Seeing the best parts of people and overlooking what you don’t like may not be the best approach to finding a life partner but, I like the fact that I’m the kind of person who focusses on the best parts of people and falls in love that best part.  My family members and close friends sometimes drive me insane but, I focus on all the ways they contribute to my life that I just can’t live without.  I’m grateful for any and all contributions no matter how great or small in my life.   I am especially grateful when people give me little reminders of how they appreciate me too 🙂

February 6th: Starry, Starry Night

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Could you see the beauty of the stars if there was no darkness?  NO.

Everything in life happens for a reason and sometimes that reason cannot be seen when things are happy and sunny and bright.  Never be afraid of the night!

February 5th: Being a Girly-Girl

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For any of you that were assuming that I am the “sporty” type because I run half marathons, get stinky and sweaty and because most of my dirty laundry is comprised of running capris and dry wick shirts… I must regretfully inform you that I am, in fact, a SERIOUS girly-girl.

I can’t go to work without putting on mascara and ironing my hair, I only wear designer perfume, I collect chandelier earrings, I own several dozen pashmina shawls as well as several dozen pairs of pumps.  I LOVE getting all dressed up and I worship any woman with an hourglass figure.  I’m big on the way a woman should carry herself and I believe strongly that a woman should know how to walk elegantly in a pair of heels.

Today I got to wear something other than my school uniform to work because of a training I attended off-campus in the morning.  I didn’t dress exceptionally feminine today but, it was nice being a little more elegant than usual.  It kinda got me in the mood to get all girly-girl this weekend!  Now I just need an occasion…